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I never did, either. Just as an example, old school Mad was pretty damn subversive that was definitely as much for adults as kids.

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Look, I believe you when you say you happy being single. But the reality is, that is not all that common. For every person who is really happy being single, there are multiple people who are really just too busy to be unhappy about it until their bodies and lives slow down. Or who are putting on a brave front. The older you get, the more people like this you see people who were seemingly okay or even happy being single, until they got older and then they weren I say this as an introverted person who prefers mostly to be alone, and probably would not re partner if something happened to my husband: Very few people really want to have no “closest person” who is always theirs at all. It a bit like genuinely happy, freely chosen, equitable open relationships of course they can happen, but there are a lot more examples of it going wrong than right.

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Honestly, I would abandon any effort to convince them. I think the best you going to get is agreeing to disagree. I know you looking for magic words that will make them see your worldview, but they probably don exist. I would just deflect, and say things like, “Well, that not for you to worry about. Why don you tell me what going on with you?”

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This is a lot. If BioDad has Son best interest in mind, he will understand the damage he done and may do by suddenly reappearing in this child life. If he truly cares I would think he would be willing to take things slowly. Or maybe you and BioDad need to get to know each other again first, so you can see what kind of a person he become.

I would canada goose recommend a consult with a family lawyer, as well as a family therapist if possible.

Edit: Saw your edit. Get a lawyer ASAP. This man is trying to move way too quickly and sounds like he will escalate to court FAST if he doesn get his way.

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Edit: Saw your edit. Get a lawyer ASAP. This man is trying to move way too quickly and sounds like he will escalate to court FAST if he doesn get his way.

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Don talk about the bonus, don buy her jewellery. Work your contacts and help her get a new job ASAP. If you have any connections in HR, ask them if they would consider some confidential outplacement support for her. The best way you can make her feel better is to help her get out of the situation and start on her next role.

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Basically what you talking canada goose clearance is a lack of boundaries, a person who doesn view it as their job to handle their own reactions, a person who thinks everyone else should make allowances because they buy canada goose jacket had a bad day.

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